The best vantage point for understanding behaviour is from the internal frame of reference of the individual. Rogers, Carl (1951). Client-centered therapy.
We know best as to why we do what we do. - I.e we may visit a friend because we enjoy their company, and want to talk. An outsider will find it difficult to know the reasons we visited.
Chris Rudyard MBACP
Professional, experienced counsellor/psychotherapist in Liverpool